Salasilah · Step-by-step

Family relationships

Connecting people who are already in the tree, and correcting a link that is wrong. Fifth of six guides to the tree workspace.

✎ Draft. Screenshots are auto-generated from the live app (re-runnable). English only for now. The numbers on each picture are the step numbers that explain them, so a badge always points at the step you can read.

The Family section

Open anyone (the pencil on their card) and scroll down: Family lists everyone connected to them, grouped as Parents, Spouses and Children, with the actions for each.

Each numbered part of the picture below is repeated beside the step that explains it, so you can match the two at a glance.

The Family section of the person panel
1 parent slots · 2 Add spouse · 3 Add son / daughter · 4 Move parents — each badge is repeated beside its step.
A

The Family section

What each group offers
A1

Parent slots

Exactly two: father and mother. A filled slot shows the person; an empty one offers to add them. Two slots, always — which is why a parent is replaced rather than added to.

A2

Add spouse

Adds a husband or wife. There is no limit, so co-spouses are simply added one after another, and each appears in the Spouses group.

Salasilah warns if you pick a direct ancestor or descendant — almost always a mis-click rather than an intention.

A3

Add son or daughter

Two buttons rather than one, because the child's gender decides its card colour and its place among siblings — asking here saves a second edit.

If this person has a spouse, the new child is linked to both parents where Salasilah can tell which; otherwise open the child and set the other parent.
A4

Move parents

Replaces both parent links at once — for when someone was attached to the wrong couple entirely. Choose the mother first; the father list then offers her spouses, which is what keeps the couple consistent.

Advanced only. In Simple it is hidden, because moving someone between families is rarely what you want mid-edit.

B

Adding a relative

One box does both jobs
B1

Search, or create as you type

Every Add button opens the same small box. Start typing a name and it does two things at once: lists people already in the tree who match, and offers Create new "…" for the name you typed.

So there is no choice to make up front between "existing person" and "new person" — type the name and pick whichever line is right.

Always look at the list before creating. Picking the existing person is what keeps one relative from becoming two records — the commonest way a tree gets untidy.
The add-spouse box showing a matching person and a create-new option
Typing "Zain" offers the existing Zainab and creating someone new.
C

Correcting a link

Without deleting anyone
C1

Unlink a relative

Each row in Family carries a small unlink icon on the right. It removes that one relationship — this person is no longer their child, spouse or parent.

Use it when the connection is wrong: a child attached to the wrong father, a spouse who was never married to them.

Family rows with the unlink icon on each
Every row has its own unlink icon.
C2

Unlink is not delete

Unlinking removes the relationship only. Both people stay in the tree with everything else about them intact, and you can link them to someone else straight away.

Reach for unlink far more often than Delete person. Deleting is permanent and is only right for someone who should never have been added at all.